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My Wife and I are not Fighting
In today’s world, many couples feel it’s almost impossible to say, “We are not fighting.” Yet, my wife and I have lived over 20 years of marriage without ever allowing quarrels to escalate into serious fights. How? By making one conscious decision before we even got married: we will always communicate openly, honestly, and respectfully—no matter how uncomfortable it feels. We discovered that communication is not just about sweet talk, but the courage to address issues before they grow from small misunderstandings into painful scars.
This is why we are running the Marriage Homecell—an ongoing weekly online gathering designed to help couples strengthen their relationships. In this safe and empowering space, we share real-life lessons, biblical principles, and practical tools that can help you and your spouse build a marriage rooted in peace, love, and understanding. You don’t have to repeat the cycle of fighting, shouting, or silent resentment. Instead, you can learn how to sit, talk, and find one another again.
The home cell is ongoing, and your participation timeframe is flexible according to your needs, not fixed. Our appreciation offering is R200 per couple. Alongside the weekly teachings, we also provide private marriage counselling for couples who need one-on-one guidance and support.
Some of the powerful topics we’ll be covering include:
- Speaking the Truth in Love
- Managing Conflict Without Fighting
- The Power of Words in Marriage
- Listening to Understand, Not to Reply
- Dealing With Sensitive Issues Early